Truthfulness vs. Honesty
Monday, July 26, 2010 at 12:57PM Fact: everyone struggles with lying. I feel like in this day and age, lying is right up there with money in terms of what makes the world go ’round. I once taught my youth group on the types of lying and how it can start off small but quickly it becomes a slippery slope. You know what I mean, the little white lies that skid out here and there. “Oh I love your new haircut!” or “I’m on my way, stuck in traffic.” These aren’t altogether the most revolting or wretched sins you could commit, but I think we all know that they can get out of hand and become a problem rapidly.
But how could you ever stop lying altogether? If at this very moment, I stop and think about all of the times I lie on a daily basis (not to any of you of course haha), I would be overwhelmed and condemn myself to Hades faster than you can say “No, that dress doesn’t make you look fat!” There is no way I could possibly stop every lie that slips through my lips, yet the Bible puts a very high importance on being truthful...or does it?
In the New Testament Jesus refers to himself as the way, the truth, and the life. He puts himself into a category as not just someone who tells the truth, but who is truth. Herein lies the quintessential difference between truth and honesty. Anyone could work themselves into being 100% truthful, but that doesn’t mean that they are honest. Have you ever spoken to someone, and it’s not that they have lied to you, but you just don’t trust them completely, and if you’ve ever met anyone like this, you know exactly the kind of person I am talking about.
When someone is an honest person, there is a certain vulnerability to that person, like they have laid all of their cards on the table. It’s almost like that person has become truth, like the Jesus, a.k.a. the truth, living inside of them is too strong to allow any deceit to cohabitate there.
“For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12
As evident through this scripture, the Lord sees through everything and looks to the root of all matters, both big and small. It’s definitely possible to have deceitful intentions and have it never manifest in an outright lie, but the Lord sees through that (and so does your spirit man, ergo the untrusting feeling around dishonest people). Honestly (no pun intended) it’s putting on a pharisaical mind-set when you present truth without honesty to God, people, or even yourself. It’s just like offering God your ‘whole heart’ yet you still keep back some for yourself. (Which is an action completely based in fear, but we’ll get to that later.)
We are called to be people of the light (or truth), just like Christ is. If we work on the honesty of the intention of our hearts, the rest will fall into place. Once you’ve captured your intentions and made them truthful, there will be nothing left to ‘lie’ about. This is a principle you can find in the Bible time and time again. At its very basic core, it’s the principle of letting God do the work in you instead of trying to work your way to salvation.
Now, I’d like to stop right here and clarify something. I’m not telling you that you should tell everything you know to everyone you meet. Via Proverbs, we know that it is wise to hold your tongue until you have something profitable to say. What I am saying is that when you do present information, it’s not the letter of what you are saying that counts, it’s the spirit of how you are saying it that is vital.
Foundationally, the only reason to be dishonest is fear. As human beings, we build protective walls based on events that we have perceived as dangerous. As children, most of us have learned that being completely honest usually yields negative or ‘dangerous’ results. That’s when our basic human instinct (BHI) kicks in to preserve at all costs. The Bible, which we hold to be the nature of God, teaches us that the truth will set us free. It disintegrates the lie that Satan would try to pawn off on us that dishonesty protects and truth will leave you wounded and exposed. We must retrain our BHI to recognize truth as the ultimate protector and lies as the ultimate villain, so that next time our BHI kicks in, truth will be our passage of choice.
I would also like to pause here to throw in a disclaimer. Truth based in honesty is not always the most popular choice. In fact, when you shed light on things that have hidden in darkness for so long, you are going to start stirring up some emotions at the very least. The truth will not only offend others who willingly choose to live in darkness, it will offend our own conscious and subconscious. We know this to be true strictly based on the life that Jesus led. Jesus offended people because He convicted them. Even if you walked away from this blog now and never applied anything that I am saying to your life, as long as you are saved, the Jesus inside you will offend, and that’s just the honest truth.
It’s time to let our basic Godly instincts (BGI) kick in. Let the Lord show you His absolute truth on every matter and you will break free from the chains of bondage that dishonesty has kept us in. When we set ourselves free, the Lord will be free to work in and through us unhindered. I don’t know about you all, but that sounds like the kind of life I want to lead – uninhibited by the bonds of sin.
I hope I haven’t lost you in all of this, I’m no scholar, but this is what I believe the Lord has laid upon my heart for myself as well as for the church at large. His truth is above all and walking in honesty is always the best policy.
-Jordan
